Contradictory characteristics brought together as a means of resolving a conflict. Refusing to be ruled by negative emotions. Strife brought to a close through clarity of mind and restraint of force. Turning a blind eye to the minor infractions of others.
Reverse
Indecision due to contradictory characteristics brought together. Tension in the aftermath of a quarrel that has been resolved. No middle ground. Scheming, abuse of trust, and agreements made in bad faith. Allowing the mind to block off the emotions. Self deception as a means of justifying cruel acts. Adversaries. Betrayal, dualistic thinking, cognitive dissonance, contradiction, denial, discord, disparity, dissension, duplicity, falsehood, incongruity, inconsistency, indecision, irresolution, misrepresentation, offsetting factors, paralysis, provocation, stalemate, uncertainty, vacillation.